The way I used to live novel Chapter 32

Daksha's POV:-

The next day, Mom woke me up to perform the mañgala snānam. Mom asked me to wear a cotton saree for the ritual.

By the time I went downstairs, everybody was there while preparing everything for the ritual.

Yuktha took me to the lawn and made me sit on a stool. They all smeared my face with Nalugu(a mixture of flours and turmeric powder) and poured the turmeric water on me.

Peddamma asked me to freshen up and take some rest for a while as I had to perform a lot of rituals. I woke up at noon and had my lunch.

They informed me that Arjun's family already reached the wedding venue. Even most of our relatives went to the venue to handle the things there. Remaining people, along with me, would reach the venue after completing Gauri pūja.

Soon it was time for the pooja and the beauticians did the magic with their hands. They took me downstairs. Mom did the hārati or Aarti. After that, they guided me to do the pooja.

When I was done with the pooja, we all started going to the wedding venue.

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Arjun's POV:

When we reached the wedding venue, I was astonished seeing the decorations. The place was beautifully decorated with all the rich colorful flowers and mango leaves.

Her father and a young man who seemed to be the same age as mine, gave us a grand welcome. I came to know that he was Daksha’s brother. Indra greeted him with a hug as they already knew each other.

Her brother came to me and had a nice chat with me but before going, he warned me to take care of his sister and I agreed gladly to it. They asked me to rest and I agreed to it. I went to the room that was allotted to me and took a small nap.

After a while, they called me for the rituals. I got ready and went towards them. A priest came there to perform the ritual of Snātakam. It is known as Bath Graduation. It is performed before householder responsibilities are handed over to the groom. This ritual takes place before the muhūrtam...precisely a few hours prior to the wedding. 

After chanting some mantras, the priest made me wear the silver thread as a part of the custom.

By the time, the ritual was over, it was evening and time for the actual wedding rituals to start. I went to change my dress and after that, Indra called me for another ritual. The next ritual's name was kāsī Yātra.

It is a fun-filled ritual where I had to pretend to go to Kashi and to say that I have discarded the worldly pleasures like marriage, relations, and property, and was no longer interested in family life.

Both sides were arguing playfully. One side was encouraging me to go to Kashi and the other side was convincing me not to go.

Finally, Aditya, Daksha's brother, came to me. As a part of the ritual, he stopped me and persuaded me to assume the responsibility of the household.

In Telugu speaking states, most of the weddings usually take place at midnight. So, we got some time before the actual muhurtham.

We also give high priority to the food. We served food to all the guests, which is also part of our culture of offering food to anyone who comes on an auspicious day. It finally ended with the offering of sweets after dinner as it is considered auspicious.

Mom came to me and fed me the food. After that, she told me that Daksha already reached the venue and asked me to get ready as well. After I was ready, I was taken to the mandapam where the wedding was going to take place.

The priest made me perform the Ganēsa and Gauri puja. During that time, Parvara, the ritual of changing the bride's paternal gothram(clan) to that of the groom's, was performed.

My Mom and Daksha's parents were present there when I performed the ritual.

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Daksha's POV:

We reached our farmhouse where the wedding was going to be performed. I was taken into a room. They made me get ready wearing my wedding attire.

They braided my hair and decorated it with flowers as per the tradition. Yuktha and Rishu's mothers came to my room and gave me their blessings.

Finally, Mom and Sarada aunty came to me and blessed me after kissing both my cheeks. After that, mom tied basikam around my forehead.

Girls took so many selfies with me and they kept on praising me, telling things like how beautiful I was looking and how Arjun would have a hard time controlling himself, making me blush uncontrollably.

My dad came to us and gave me a kiss on the forehead with tears in his eyes. Looking at him made me quite emotional but I controlled myself and gave him an assured smile.